I really like what Urban Dictionary says about the different types of Asexuals. Because while none of us feels sexual attraction, we do feel about sex in general differently.
Here’s what it says on Urban Dictionary:
Repulsed Asexuals: Asexuals that are opposed to the idea of having sex with any other individual. Some may masturbate to release any sexual tension, though some even find masturbation repulsive.
Flexible Asexuals: Asexuals that are more open to the idea of having sex and may be willing to have sex for the benefit of a sexual partner. Some flexible asexuals may even enjoy having sex.
Aromantic Asexuals: Asexuals who have little or no romantic drive. They usually prefer to be single. Some even never experience crushes. Aromantic asexuals are usually repulsed asexuals.
Romantic Asexuals: Asexuals who have a romantic drive and often have a desire to find a significant other. Romantic asexuals can be either flexible or repulsed. Flexible ones are usually willing to date sexuals and asexuals, repulsed ones usually prefer to date other asexuals when possible. Romantic asexuals are split into a few subcategories.
ok tryin to describe asexuality here, at least for me:
its like someone who likes chocolate vs a ‘chocoholic’ and basically nonace people are like chocoholics to me
like if someone offers me a candy bar, like hell yeah sure free candy bar. but i wouldnt like go out and buy JUST a candy bar. i dont CRAVE chocolate.
also there are some other aces who dont like chocolate at all, and gray/demi are people who usually dont eat chocolate but sometimes get cravings
this is brilliant!
Anonymous asked: What was white supposed to be? Someone said it was for allosexuals but I highly doubt that
Black, gray, and white represent the spectrum of sexuality that was illustrated in another asexual symbol, the triangle with a gradient that went from black to white. Black, gray, and white together represent the spectrum of sexuality: black is for the concept of asexuality, gray is for gray asexuality and demisexuality, and white represents sexuality. The stripes all stand for concepts, not for groups of people.
Hello, dears! This is the first time I’m doing something like this, but as you’ve probably noticed, Once Upon A Time has basically ripped out my shadow - IN A GOOD WAY (?) - and I’d really like to see more of it on my dashboard! If you reblog Once Upon A Time, it’d mean a lot if you could like this post so I could check out and maybe follow your already awesome possum blog! Thank you so much!
"asexuals don’t actually exist outside of tumblr!"
i look down at myself. startled, i see nothing. i do not, in fact, exist! my entire life, every social interaction, is a lie. all i am is in cyberspace. i am part of the void. only now, with the truth at last, i have become sentient.
i am aware.
and i am watching.
don’t sit in your pajamas and reblog posts about how you wish you could be pretty and confident, just do it. Get up early so you can do your hair and makeup all nice for school, flirt with the boys and let them come to you, say “thank you” instead of “no i’m not” when someone calls you pretty, fake that fucking confidence until it’s real, do you understand me? Now go own that red lipstick.
TAKE THIS ADVICE GUYS ITS THE BEST THING YOU COULD EVER DO FOR YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE
this and everything about this!
this is exactly what i used to do throughout all of middle school and most of high school and then in my junior year i actually started believing it and stopped giving a shit what other people’s opinions of me were
fake it until you believe it because it really does work